Responsibilities and Privileges

Matthew came to us recently at dinner time and said he felt as the oldest brother he should be allowed to stay up later! Nathan and I considered his proposal and agreed that he could have extra privileges, but with these there would be extra responsibilities. He agreed to our terms and as such he has being staying up until 7.30! One of the conditions of his delayed bedtime was he had to always do his poos in the toilet and not in his jocks. We have had two early nights and he has been perfect since! Recently another change occurred. Matthew asked if he could be allowed (!!!!!) to unpack the dishwasher. We felt he would be capable and responsible enough to do the task and as a result he is getting pocket money every time he unpacks the dishwasher. He must save the 50c we pay him until he has saved enough to buy himself something worthwhile.
So i think we have transitioned into boyhood. This world involves responsibilities, privileges and pocket money. It is slightly scary but it has a really good feeling. We are actually moulding adult life skills! Please, please God help us mould him into a great individual!